In Such Poor Health I Couldn’t Walk When a Man Essentially Lifted Me to a Restroom.

During my 19 years old, my regular journey to work meant taking an packed public transport. It remained crowded and would always be without any seats when I boarded.

One particular morning, I was feeling incredibly sick as the bus rocked around the bends. I kept telling myself to persevere another few kilometres so the bus could arrived at where I needed to get off, and then I could rush hurriedly to the closest public toilet to vomit.

As we neared the road leading to my stop and I understood I wasn’t going to last. In an instant, it seemed a fog descended upon me. Everything just went blank and silent; like someone had cut the sound. I said to myself, “I’m going to faint”.

Thankfully, I was positioned toward the front inside the vehicle, so I took a couple of steps toward the driver and asked the driver to open the doors, explaining to him I was going to be sick. The driver opened the doors and I stumbled out out onto the street.

I was resolved to avoid being sick in front of six lanes of traffic, so I picked myself up and began attempting to walk across to the park on the other side, where I thought I’d at least be able to discreetly hide behind a bush to be sick. But then I likely lost consciousness. I sensed my limbs, but I couldn’t walk or see clearly, so I started dragging myself toward the park.

“You right, love?”

At that moment, someone picked me up. There was a strong arm supporting me and heard a man say, “Are you okay, dear?” I managed to tell the unknown man that I needed to be sick. Therefore, he almost helped me walk over to a close-by structure and guided me into the female bathroom. He inquired whether I required him to remain with me but I declined.

A few minutes later, I felt better to the point of sitting on the toilet when from beyond the stall I heard him ask, “Are you feeling better, dear? Can I get you something?” I was incapable to stand up right away but I did succeed to express my gratitude and following a brief period regained the function of my feet. I made my way home and spent the next few days recovering from what turned out to be a horrible case of gastroenteritis.

I never glimpsed his features – merely his legs and the big metal toolbox he was carrying – but he helped me, during a time when I was completely helpless.

Frequently, society tends to make people self-protective, pushy, and rivalrous. His was the sort of gesture that undoes that emotional callousness. He served as evidence that humanity’s innate tendency leans toward compassion, a quality I adore about my fellow humans.

Robert Ward
Robert Ward

A business strategist and innovation consultant with over 15 years of experience helping companies navigate digital transformation.